Real World Cancun: Episode 3 - Discussion

Oh and did anyone catch Ayiiia talking on the phone? Did it say Ryan was her boyfriend? Since when did she have a boyfriend?

Immediate challenge invitation to Ayiiia, Emilee, Jasmine, and Jonna please!

[QUOTE=tjhallow;94286]Oh and did anyone catch Ayiiia talking on the phone? Did it say Ryan was her boyfriend? Since when did she have a boyfriend?[/QUOTE] I saw that and I was puzzled!! I was like.."wait, didn't know she had a boyfriend".

BTW, did anyone keep count of how many times the word "fake" was used during the episode?

Good Episode. I like all the girls with an exception of Jonna. It's not because the other three are in drama all the time, it's just because I think they're more real and relatable to me. I cannot stand Derek, Joey and CJ. Jonna just doesn't put in any effort for me. I feel bad for Aiiya.

I feel bad for Ayiiia too. Dont know why Jasmine was betraying her.

I felt bad for Ayiiia too. It sorta seemed like Emilee and Jasmine just all of a sudden turned on her. I'm sure there was more going on, but I don't even feel like Ayiiia's that dramatic of a person. I think it's her personality to be sort of straight forward though, and so some of what she says or does offends the other cast members. I don't feel like she was attempting to start drama when she kept confronting Jasmine and Emilee either. Idk but I felt bad for her by the end of the episode.

Ok. Drama epsiode. Things happen. I had some not so good moments but I dont say sorry for anything that I said or did. I was never betraying Ayiiia I just didnt want to get involved with issue between her and Em. Right after our fight like 10 minutes later we are outside on the patio laughing and joking about how stupid our fight was. Thats why we were BFF's of the house, we can fight and disagree with each other but cool like 10 minutes later! Next week....WHATEVER!! Thats all I can say whatever, there is lust and horomones in the air!

Jasmine, I think everyone had some not so good moments in that episode (well okay, moreso the girls). It seemed pretty dramatic and I bet those were some pretty tense days. I'm just glad to know everyone seems to get along now. And I get the not wanting to be put in the middle of the situation. I'm the same way. I don't want drama but I also don't want to pick sides. I try to remain neutral but sometimes people just keep pulling you in opposite directions until you're fed up. Also, with all the editing, it's really tough to know what was really going on. It looked to me like Ayiiia and Emily's "crushes" were mostly due to alcohol. I don't know why they were advertising it like they actually became a couple or something because it seemed pretty clear that it was just a drunken hook-up.

I am still very confused with Ayiiia. I liked her in the beginning of the episode and then I started changing my feelings of her towards the end. I didn't really respect what she said to Emilee, that was a low blow, and it seemed like she started getting snappy with Jasmine and Em first, after Em's fight. That's just my opinion. I also had no idea she had a boyfriend... that was odd. It seems like she does want a lot of camera time.

I dont know it seems like a drunken hook-up but the way they were talking the next day, and how they remembered every detail and how em was like ive never dated a girl but i hooked up with some and she said it may happen again cuz they both have ******** tendencies, (even though right now the chance of another hookup is probably not likely), i think they maybe were just attracted to each other. And Ayiiia really came off as a b this episode i think cuz thats how the editing wanted it to seem, even em said that she said some mean stuff to ayiiia also, and from personnal experience it seems that you say the most hurtfull things to people you care for the most and i think ayiiia just really cared for em and jasmine thats why she took it to that level. And personally i like all the people in the house they are not tip toeing around each others feeling and thats not how it happens in the real world so i think they depict the real world to a t. And i agree, since when does ayiiia have a boyfriend unless they mean a friend whos a boy.

In this episode Emilee was like mini-Brooke!

I haven't had a chance to see the episode yet but after reading through the comments I'm really excited to see it. To add my two cents in on the Jonna situation I would think being that she knew Derek before the show that it would have played a factor in her hanging out more with the boys than the girls (you know the whole being somewhere where you don't know other people it seems like human nature to gravitate towards a familar face/person).

Team Ayiiia.

IDK...I still like Emilee and I still Love Jasmine...but I will always be Team Ayiiia. I think she is just being honest, and straight up with people, unlike two other castmembers, CJ & Derek. Derek in the Dailies went on to say he doesn't like Ayiiia, yet he never said it to her face. CJ also started saying how Ayiiia is the problem, and a drama queen. Yet he never confronted her about it...he just said it to the camera. Team Ayiiia...God Bless

I thought Id like Ayiiia but she she is really annoying, i cant believe another cast member who was voted onto the show is gettin ousted already, first he who must not be named in HW now this chick. She's really startin to bug me!!! Im all about Jasmine, and the guys are kool too, all 5 of them :)

This is the first season in a long time since I like all of the cast!! I am very excited about this season!!! Only 10 left :( But then.. Well we all know what happens next!!! THE RUINS!!

[quote=Dash_Vegas!;94348]I thought Id like Ayiiia but she she is really annoying, i cant believe another cast member who was voted onto the show is gettin ousted already, first Greg in HW now this chick. She's really startin to bug me!!! Im all about Jasmine, and the guys are kool too, all 5 of them :)[/quote] You reall can't compare "the one with no name" and Ayiiia. I like Ayiiia 1000 times more. I think everything will work out towards the end of the season ;)

Producer88 I love you. loveitorhate is understanding and i love you for it I'm so glad you guys are enjoying the show :) it's a little hard to watch at times but definitely learning a lot. I'm glad you guys are grasping the fact that i was VERY real with everyone in the house and said everything i needed to say OUT LOUD and not to the camera or in private. I never meant it viciously but i am very straight forward and a lot of people take it WAY too offensive you know? it's all good, everyones different. As of the "low blow" to Emilee, i COMPLETELY agree it was a low blow and you guys HAVE to stay tuned to the next episode to see what happens with that issue but I was very very VERY heated in that fight and was way out of line... all you can do is learn from it :) you guys rock my socks off! :) I'll be sure to write an episode 3 feedback blog on my myspace and facebook soon.... love you guys

[QUOTE=ayiiia;94366]Producer88 I love you. loveitorhate is understanding and i love you for it I'm so glad you guys are enjoying the show :) it's a little hard to watch at times but definitely learning a lot. I'm glad you guys are grasping the fact that i was VERY real with everyone in the house and said everything i needed to say OUT LOUD and not to the camera or in private. I never meant it viciously but i am very straight forward and a lot of people take it WAY too offensive you know? it's all good, everyones different. As of the "low blow" to Emilee, i COMPLETELY agree it was a low blow and you guys HAVE to stay tuned to the next episode to see what happens with that issue but I was very very VERY heated in that fight and was way out of line... all you can do is learn from it :) you guys rock my socks off! :) I'll be sure to write an episode 3 feedback blog on my myspace and facebook soon.... love you guys[/QUOTE] Thanks Ayiiia! I heard you on the aftershow radio! My boy producer88 was there too! It was awesome!

I think Jasmine, Emilee, and Ayiiia are going to remain my favorites this season (with a side dish of Derek). What sets them apart from the Sydney girls (minus ParisaGoddess) is that they are self-aware and have some sense of humility. That's why I found it a bit sad to see Ayiiia being ostracized by the group even though she was being a meanie. I was completely on Jasmine and Emilee's wavelength with their issue with her, but I still wanted to give Ayiiia a bear hug. It's great to hear that you girls made up so quickly. But lol at how fast Jasmine dipped out of that room once Ayiiia came in. That would've been me, too! CJ and Joey were the ones that were blah for me. CJ is proving to be the most boring in the house, and the pair of them seemed happy about everyone disliking Ayiiia. A little too happy. It gave me the impression that they didn't want to attempt to work things out at all. I don't know. Derek is love. It looks like Jonna will finally be able to bond with the girls. And could she actually be sticking to her relationship? I'm shocked and impressed. Thank goodness CJ is getting out of her face and finding someone else to bug next week. While Bronne is pretty funny, Isaac still owns him for life.

Well I had decided to watch this season afterall and after 3 episodes I think I'm finally ready to comment. I don't think this is going to be one of my favorite seasons, not even top 10, because I do not feel a connection with anyone - I just don't see any real depth to any of these people. It's not that I dislike them all - the only one I REALLY dislike is Joey. But they all seem very artificial. With this episode in particular I felt like I was watching a remake of Sweet Valley High or something like that. Any positives from this vantage point? A few. I like how all of the guys were comfortable enough to go to a gay bar with Derek...I am very glad there are no homophobes on this season. Bronne is the one bright spot in this season - the guy is hilarious, not to mention hot!! He is the only one I truly like - the rest of them (except Joey) I am still on the fence about. I guess time will tell...I will keep watching out of curiosity.

All of the guys on this season are annoying, lame, and fake. Bronne reminds me of the frat guys who attempt to act cool, but are actually rather lame. Watching a squirrel is funnier than listening to this guy. He's not even remotely funny, but just extremely annoying. When it comes to Derek, I don't understand how he is so neutral when he constantly talks trash about Ayiiia in the confessional. That doesn't sound so neutral to me. CJ is just boring and should not have been cast on this show. They should have cast more dramatic guys. When will BMP learn that guys like CJ and Bronne do not bring in the ratings?

[quote=Jayene;94382] That's why I found it a bit sad to see Ayiiia being ostracized by the group even though she was being a meanie. I was completely on Jasmine and Emilee's wavelength with their issue with her, but I still wanted to give Ayiiia a bear hug. [/quote] Yeah I have such a hard time seeing one person ostracized.... even when they deserve it to some extent....

[quote=HonestHenry;94393]When it comes to Derek, I don't understand how he is so neutral when he constantly talks trash about Ayiiia in the confessional. That doesn't sound so neutral to me. [/quote] Why must you always talk *** about Derek. You don't understand the situation they were in, and you don't understand the context in which his confessional was based on. And saying he's ALWAYS talking trash about Ayiia is ridiculous. And judging from last nights episode and what Emilee said in their argument, he didn't say anything that they all hadn't voiced amongst eachother at some point in their short stay.

[quote=jbchvz98;94438]Why must you always talk *** about Derek. You don't understand the situation they were in, and you don't understand the context in which his confessional was based on. And saying he's ALWAYS talking trash about Ayiia is ridiculous. And judging from last nights episode and what Emilee said in their argument, he didn't say anything that they all hadn't voiced amongst eachother at some point in their short stay.[/quote] I don't get all the trash talk about any of the guys. Really, they haven't done anything that bad yet. People are to over-biased.

I think the guys have been really cool so far minus Joey.

Hey people, first post! I don't know if it's because I find her so sexy and funny, but Ayiiia has been my favorite since the first episode. A lot has been said about what went on in this episode, so I don't have much to add, however I would like to touch a subject that hasn't been brought up thus far... It's very easy to pass judgment on people when they say something blatantly in the heat of an argument that is obviously reprehensible, I agree that the adoption comment was a low blow, but before judging her, I think we should put ourselves in her position. At the time she said it, she had been casted aside by the roomates for some time (if anyone of the cast could shed some light on this it'd be nice). Imagine being stuck there, alone, with your seven roommates having fun, knowing that they probably would like you to go away, with practically no one to speak to, and having nothing better to do than just drink and smoke. Now, I know she pressed most of their buttons, but it's not like she meant to do that, I mean, she didn't do any of that stuff in order to **** anyone off or upset them (with the exception of breaking Joey's disc, but he also went beyond the line); People just couldn't get past their big egos and see where she was coming from. I know that is a problem Ayiiia herself has, but unlike the rest of the roommates she gets completely isolated for it, I was appalled at watching everyone against her and having fun while she's by herself having a hard time, I mean, where is the maturity of them all? If it was me I wouldn't have let that happen, I would have either bugged her nicely to get her to join the rest or be the only one spending time with her, and not because she's hot or whatever but because she is a person, I'd done the same for any of the roomies. So, in that state, she has the girl who she is closest to (after they nearly hooked up, she was saying she loved her and had a crush on her) ignore her and not even make eye contact with her without explaining why, and then afterwards she tells her to get out of her room when she tries to approach her to clear things up. Remember that Ayiiia has trust issues, so what do you think she feels when the girl that had her back before and who she might have had some kind of mutual attraction until recently, is suddenly telling her to get lost and shouting that nobody likes her? This was kind of an extreme situation for Ayiiia, I don't approve what she said but I certainly don't blame her, she must have felt so betrayed that in order to save her ego she had to take a stab like that, poor girl. It's kinda sad (unless it was merely the editing and someone did go to her afterwards) that no one went to try to make her come share with them, even if she was *****y to them or whatever, how can they not realize that it is also hard for her to go and patch things up with them even if she'd like to (for pride), like I said, no maturity from them. I wonder if Ayiiia would be as heartless as them as to be partying while another one of them was isolated and having a hard time, maybe she would, but I feel she wouldn't, and that's the part of Ayiia's personality that is not easily seen because of the wall she puts around her. Anyway, got a little carried away there, I kinda enjoy analyzing situations and people's feelings like that, I'm sure they probably worked it out and ended on good terms, it's just that I'd like people to realize that it's more edifying to try to understand others instead of saying things like: I can't believe she said that! and just judge...

[quote=LifeCarrier;94446]Hey people, first post![/quote] Hi and welcome to Vevmo :) Just so you know Ayiiia has 3 I's in it.