It's not all about the looks. And it seems as if Avery needs Johnny. Have you seen this season? Johnny doesn't care at all.
yeah thats why i said in my post "most importantly he has a seemingly horrible personality". reilly seems lame all around. no redeeming qualities as far as i can see.
avery does make it seem like she needs johnny but from a third person viewpoint she doesnt. she fell in "love" with johnny...and lets face it, love...or emotional attachment whatever, can be extremely irrational and stupid. familiarity can breed unhealthy addiction even if you know its not the best option in the long term.
i see this everyday. people that stick to bad jobs, homes, or relationships because they cant be bothered to look for another one because they dont like the instability that comes with doing something different even if it only lasts a little bit.
reilly woudlnt ahve got with avery in a normal circumstance anyways IMO. hes lucky that he had forced proximity by real world(similar to work/school) and was able to woo her with her dog. i doubt avery would be dumpster diving for someone like reilly in any normal instance where shes not forced to be room with him all day long. she shouldnt be accepting something thats below her worth because its convenient.
i think you're making it too much about looks. And even taking it there, Reilly had a gorgeous girl like Nany going on about how hot he is, I doubt Reilly, especially with his humor and Boston boy swagger has a tough time getting girls. He's not even ugly. Just average.
And good looks only go so far. Being good looking doesn't mean you're easy to live with or a good girlfriend/boyfriend, and it certainly doesn't mean you're worth dealing with mistreatment/cheating/disrespect.
Why does Johnny need Averey more than the other way around? I don't think either one needs the other anymore. Reilly especially felt she did him wrong, and so he's done with her. Averey has been honest about still having feelings for him, but she's a strong girl and she'll be fine. She has been burned many times by guys she has said. They are better off moving on because when you don't have trust in a relationship, it's a disaster.
i think he has a horrible, bland personality and is a horrible boyfriend too. avery said in a podcast that she would have work at 3 and reilly would go to the gym at 2 and basically not spend time with her. thats not a good boyfriend.
dont want to talk crap about nany but apparently she slept with the whole cast outside of wes. if thats really true or partially true then that doesnt mean nany has high standards. do you think adam royer is hot beacuse nany not only slept with him...she almost had a relationship with him. i like nany but lets face it, she doesnt discriminate at all with who she wants it from unless its wes.
youre right...but according to avery he doesnt make the effort to spend time with her(bad boyfirend) and hes ugly and avery moved out FOR him...in reality avery shoudl have dumped him first. you dont have to be good looking in a relationship but the fact of the matter is none of us are doing charity work when we're trying to find relationships. if you dont have anything to bring to the table then why would anyone want to date that person?
would you personally date or stay with somebody if they were both of these
1) didnt spend time with you or wasnt a good boyfriend
2) physically unattractive
there shouldnt be such thing as "unconditional love" between boyfriends/girlfriends. you need to have conditions and standards...and one of the most important standards is making sure youre being treated well or they are trying to make the effort to sustain your relationship. avery said they basically spent no time together prior to breaking up despite her efforts.
he doesnt technically "need" her, but hes not going to find another girl as attractive as her that is willing to move across the country and punch another bigger girl in the face for him. avery on the other hand can probably find many unattractive/average guys that would like to get sex but dont want to spend actual romantic time with her.
she probably wouldnt have fallen in "love" with him anyways had it not been the abnormal rooming situation on real world.
It's not all about the looks. And it seems as if Avery needs Johnny. Have you seen this season? Johnny doesn't care at all.
yeah thats why i said in my post "most importantly he has a seemingly horrible personality". reilly seems lame all around. no redeeming qualities as far as i can see.
avery does make it seem like she needs johnny but from a third person viewpoint she doesnt. she fell in "love" with johnny...and lets face it, love...or emotional attachment whatever, can be extremely irrational and stupid. familiarity can breed unhealthy addiction even if you know its not the best option in the long term.
i see this everyday. people that stick to bad jobs, homes, or relationships because they cant be bothered to look for another one because they dont like the instability that comes with doing something different even if it only lasts a little bit.
reilly woudlnt ahve got with avery in a normal circumstance anyways IMO. hes lucky that he had forced proximity by real world(similar to work/school) and was able to woo her with her dog. i doubt avery would be dumpster diving for someone like reilly in any normal instance where shes not forced to be room with him all day long. she shouldnt be accepting something thats below her worth because its convenient.
He may seem lame to you but considering the amount of friends he's made and the good things people say about him after such a short time on these challenges prove otherwise. As for that last part about Averey shouldn't accept something below her worth, as much as I'm Team Averey she's CLEARLY in denial and lying about cheating on him. She's proven to be a liar and a cheater which is worse than what you can say about Johnny.
Johnny, judging by his confidence with girls/women(e.g. Averey on Portland, Nany on the Challenge), comes across as a guy who gets and understands this.
nany is an equal opportunity partner so you probably dont need to be all that great of a person to get in bed with her. even with royer she was sober...reilly she admits to having to be drunk.
avery seems like a unique situation to me with the real world house, proximity, using her dog to get to her and probably having jordan/marlon/anastasia "egg" on the consummation. that, or avery just doesnt have high standards which is a shame because everyone should have high enough self-esteem to not settle for someting thats less than their worth. if you have an engineering, math degree you wouldnt accept a job at mcdonalds would you?
avery probably felt coveniently attached to him after she moved to boston especially beacuse she had no family/friends in that area. reilly was probably one of the only people she had there and because of that she hesitated to break up with him when he stopped spending time with her because she didnt want to be COMPLETELY alone. theres a reason why people said reilly was "lucky" to have avery. if this was a normal thing for reilly to get somebody like avery then he wouldnt need any "luck".
im also surprised that people think reilly is confident. hes a complete follower and probably one of the most disposable in his social group if push comes to shove. in every social group there is always some kind of pecking order and i dont see johnny as somebody at the top making the shots or calls or being followed in fact...hes the one FOLLOWING the top dog..whether its bananas, CT, zach, etc.
look at his body language and then look at zachs, bananas, CT. the last three are all very loud, obnoxious and sure of themselves. reilly has slumped shoulders, talks very quietly in an almost uncertain monotonous dynamic. this isnt an absolute certainty but theres definitely a correlation between how someones body language and how they perceive themselves. theres a reason nerds, dorks, insecure people tend to be less out there in terms of personality, no eye contact, etc.
He may seem lame to you but considering the amount of friends he's made and the good things people say about him after such a short time on these challenges prove otherwise. As for that last part about Averey shouldn't accept something below her worth, as much as I'm Team Averey she's CLEARLY in denial and lying about cheating on him. She's proven to be a liar and a cheater which is worse than what you can say about Johnny.
2 things...good friend does not mean good boyfriend. furthermore all these "friends" of his on the challenge dont know him like avery. avery spent the most time with him considering she was living with him for years. you dont "know" somebody until youve lived with them. try to room with some of your allegedly amazing friends for several years and see how many of those friendships come out where you guys dont try to kill each other. familiarity breeds either love or hate
actually you dont even need to put yourself through that hell..just check the divorce statistics rate.
averey made one mistake...and that mistake was not dumping him as soon as he started neglecting her. she decided to seek comfort with this one guy shes dating now and that was represented as "cheating"...whatever you want to call it. i can see why she didnt dump reilly because she was across the country in no mans land.
and theres about five "avery cheated like OMG its just my opinion, i dont know why, but like, it just is" basic posts to every one of my own or someone else of the alternativ perspective on this forum so you can learn to get over it especially if the former isnt bothering you by sheer superior numbers. funnily enough only about a couple poster that offered the opposite viewpoint from myself made fair points that i happened to acknowledge and move on from.
you "getting it" doesnt determine what or when i post since im not your private tutor.
but if you or anyone else thats annoyed wants to show me that you understand the material well then heres your assignment:
Write me a 9000-word essay on the difficulties of relationships and how these are exacerbated when both of the members are not meeting their standards by a significant margin in categories such as personality, finance, physical appearance. Describe in detail abnormal scenarios that may promote unequal coupling and elaborate on why proximity plays a huge part in lucking out if one is less established in categories that are normally advertised in the dating scene.
Feel free to use primary and secondary sources such as the recording and national airing of jenn/adam on "The Challenge: Rivals" laura/brandon "St Thomas" etc.
and theres about five "avery cheated like OMG its just my opinion, i dont know why, but like, it just is" basic posts to every one of my own or someone else of the alternativ perspective on this forum so you can learn to get over it especially if the former isnt bothering you by sheer superior numbers. funnily enough only about a couple poster that offered the opposite viewpoint from myself made fair points that i happened to acknowledge and move on from.
you "getting it" doesnt determine what or when i post since im not your private tutor.
but if you or anyone else thats annoyed wants to show me that you understand the material well then heres your assignment:
Write me a 9000-word essay on the difficulties of relationships and how these are exacerbated when both of the members are not meeting their standards by a significant margin in categories such as personality, finance, physical appearance. Describe in detail abnormal scenarios that may promote unequal coupling and elaborate on why proximity plays a huge part in lucking out if one is less established in categories that are normally advertised in the dating scene.
Feel free to use primary and secondary sources such as the recording and national airing of jenn/adam on "The Challenge: Rivals" laura/brandon "St Thomas" etc.
Deadline: 5 minutes from now
sincerely,
teacher
Sometimes when im upset i take a timeout to cool off. You should try it
I'll just say that I hope MTV/BMP push for Averey next season.
Me too! She was hands down my favorite cast member this season...I'm not as thrilled with this season as I was hoping to be, but Avrery was my favorite part and was the only cast member I've really seemed to care about. I'd love to see how she would do on a team challenge or even a free agents type challenge.
I'll just say that I hope MTV/BMP push for Averey next season.
Me too! She was hands down my favorite cast member this season...I'm not as thrilled with this season as I was hoping to be, but Avrery was my favorite part and was the only cast member I've really seemed to care about. I'd love to see how she would do on a team challenge or even a free agents type challenge.
I agree. Averey has been my favorite girl this season. I think she'd kick *** in an individual/team challenge format.
Averey said Bananas was so mean to her this season but he gave her a hug at the end of exile and said you killed it for your first time.Part of me feels like Averey exaggerated Bananas being an *** to her and she was really just mad at the fact that he was friends with Reily and Nany's partner.
Averey said Bananas was so mean to her this season but he gave her a hug at the end of exile and said you killed it for your first time.Part of me feels like Averey exaggerated Bananas being an *** to her and she was really just mad at the fact that he was friends with Reily and Nany's partner.
Yeah, I thought that was cool of him (can't believe I just said something nice about Backpack, I must be growing)! LOL
her words have been "looking back at it" and "its not wrong but it might look like it". her retrospection... looking back at it" is a result of johnnys or a third persons view, all of which are different from her own first person view since she personally still doesnt admit to doing anything wrong and she really shouldnt have to admit it or change her standards,personality and conscience because her hypersensitive boyfriend is insecure about her leaving him.
its good that they broke up. two people of completely different attraction and personality levels never works out anyways since there are fewer similarities and more conflicts and youll always have the "uglier" person of the relationship(johnny) constnatly trying to compensate or at the brink of a heart attack becauase his spouse holds all the power in their hands as to whether or not theyre going to cheat or leave. it must have drove him to insanity knowing how many guys were vying for avery and probably didnt want to deal with all that pressure anymore
reilly needs averey far more than averey needs reilly and she needs to realize this and stop crying over scraps. reilly will never find a girl on averys level again unless he gets REALLY lucky and even then hes going to have to damn near kill himself to keep her around. avery can find someone like johnny in a second. johnny is ugly, not that intelligent, probably less financially stable than avery and from what nia has said...lacking in somewhere else...tacky i know but reilly advertised it on portland so its fair game, AND most importantly he has a seemingly horrible personality so really, he has like nothing to bring to the table. avery was being hypogamous and needs to stop trying to eat dollar store purina puppy chow in the form of reilly and at least move up to a mcdonalds dollar menu item.
I feel sorry for you. You have a very vain and superificial outlook on life.
i just recognize the realities of most peoples evolutionary and biological imperatives...you know...the thing that has driven humanity for like ten thousands of years...so if anything that probably makes me less superficial than you. you live in delusion...a drugged up state, the fact that youre a fan of "dustin" as if you actually know him...lol... and watch an edited, glamorized tv show is an indirect admission of how you prefer the deluded "reality" that MTV gives to your own which is probably largely bland, repetitive, and x-factor-less filled with a job you probably dont care about or classes and schoolwork that occupy the time of about 1000 other things that youd prefer to do like shift your consciousness from reality to something fake like MTV exes 2 or some other television show.
Averey said Bananas was so mean to her this season but he gave her a hug at the end of exile and said you killed it for your first time.Part of me feels like Averey exaggerated Bananas being an *** to her and she was really just mad at the fact that he was friends with Reily and Nany's partner.
I wouldn't doubt he's mean to people , I feel like after he got to know her he stopped and by that point he didn't know her as just " the girl who broke Johnny's heart"
Wow you guys are serious about reality tv. I just like the challenge.
it doesnt have to just be shows like the challenge
movies,tv, sports, video games, internet, forums(like this one), facebook, instagram, books, comics, music, dining out, junk food that is artificially flavored(not real food like salads), drugs, booze, spirituality, religion, etc.
all tools that we enjoy that are designed to be far from our normal lives
Wow you guys are serious about reality tv. I just like the challenge.
a lot of what people do in their spare time is to evade reality. it doesnt have to just be shows like the challenge
movies,tv, sports, video games, internet, forums(like this one), facebook, instagram, books, comics, music, dining out, junk food that is artificially flavored(not real food like salads), drugs, booze, spirituality, religion, etc.
all tools that we enjoy that are designed to be far from our normal lives
Im not saying it is a negative. Im just saying you guys really like this show.
Wow you guys are serious about reality tv. I just like the challenge.
a lot of what people do in their spare time is to evade reality. it doesnt have to just be shows like the challenge
movies,tv, sports, video games, internet, forums(like this one), facebook, instagram, books, comics, music, dining out, junk food that is artificially flavored(not real food like salads), drugs, booze, spirituality, religion, etc.
all tools that we enjoy that are designed to be far from our normal lives
Im not saying it is a negative. Im just saying you guys really like this show.
Wow you guys are serious about reality tv. I just like the challenge.
a lot of what people do in their spare time is to evade reality. it doesnt have to just be shows like the challenge
movies,tv, sports, video games, internet, forums(like this one), facebook, instagram, books, comics, music, dining out, junk food that is artificially flavored(not real food like salads), drugs, booze, spirituality, religion, etc.
all tools that we enjoy that are designed to be far from our normal lives
Im not saying it is a negative. Im just saying you guys really like this show.
We're on Vevmo, aren't we?
yes we are. and the moderators seem to be pretty chilled so we're good.
yeah thats why i said in my post "most importantly he has a seemingly horrible personality". reilly seems lame all around. no redeeming qualities as far as i can see.
avery does make it seem like she needs johnny but from a third person viewpoint she doesnt. she fell in "love" with johnny...and lets face it, love...or emotional attachment whatever, can be extremely irrational and stupid. familiarity can breed unhealthy addiction even if you know its not the best option in the long term.
i see this everyday. people that stick to bad jobs, homes, or relationships because they cant be bothered to look for another one because they dont like the instability that comes with doing something different even if it only lasts a little bit.
reilly woudlnt ahve got with avery in a normal circumstance anyways IMO. hes lucky that he had forced proximity by real world(similar to work/school) and was able to woo her with her dog. i doubt avery would be dumpster diving for someone like reilly in any normal instance where shes not forced to be room with him all day long. she shouldnt be accepting something thats below her worth because its convenient.
i think he has a horrible, bland personality and is a horrible boyfriend too. avery said in a podcast that she would have work at 3 and reilly would go to the gym at 2 and basically not spend time with her. thats not a good boyfriend.
dont want to talk crap about nany but apparently she slept with the whole cast outside of wes. if thats really true or partially true then that doesnt mean nany has high standards. do you think adam royer is hot beacuse nany not only slept with him...she almost had a relationship with him. i like nany but lets face it, she doesnt discriminate at all with who she wants it from unless its wes.
youre right...but according to avery he doesnt make the effort to spend time with her(bad boyfirend) and hes ugly and avery moved out FOR him...in reality avery shoudl have dumped him first. you dont have to be good looking in a relationship but the fact of the matter is none of us are doing charity work when we're trying to find relationships. if you dont have anything to bring to the table then why would anyone want to date that person?
would you personally date or stay with somebody if they were both of these
1) didnt spend time with you or wasnt a good boyfriend
2) physically unattractive
there shouldnt be such thing as "unconditional love" between boyfriends/girlfriends. you need to have conditions and standards...and one of the most important standards is making sure youre being treated well or they are trying to make the effort to sustain your relationship. avery said they basically spent no time together prior to breaking up despite her efforts.
he doesnt technically "need" her, but hes not going to find another girl as attractive as her that is willing to move across the country and punch another bigger girl in the face for him. avery on the other hand can probably find many unattractive/average guys that would like to get sex but dont want to spend actual romantic time with her.
she probably wouldnt have fallen in "love" with him anyways had it not been the abnormal rooming situation on real world.
He may seem lame to you but considering the amount of friends he's made and the good things people say about him after such a short time on these challenges prove otherwise. As for that last part about Averey shouldn't accept something below her worth, as much as I'm Team Averey she's CLEARLY in denial and lying about cheating on him. She's proven to be a liar and a cheater which is worse than what you can say about Johnny.
nany is an equal opportunity partner so you probably dont need to be all that great of a person to get in bed with her. even with royer she was sober...reilly she admits to having to be drunk.
avery seems like a unique situation to me with the real world house, proximity, using her dog to get to her and probably having jordan/marlon/anastasia "egg" on the consummation. that, or avery just doesnt have high standards which is a shame because everyone should have high enough self-esteem to not settle for someting thats less than their worth. if you have an engineering, math degree you wouldnt accept a job at mcdonalds would you?
avery probably felt coveniently attached to him after she moved to boston especially beacuse she had no family/friends in that area. reilly was probably one of the only people she had there and because of that she hesitated to break up with him when he stopped spending time with her because she didnt want to be COMPLETELY alone. theres a reason why people said reilly was "lucky" to have avery. if this was a normal thing for reilly to get somebody like avery then he wouldnt need any "luck".
im also surprised that people think reilly is confident. hes a complete follower and probably one of the most disposable in his social group if push comes to shove. in every social group there is always some kind of pecking order and i dont see johnny as somebody at the top making the shots or calls or being followed in fact...hes the one FOLLOWING the top dog..whether its bananas, CT, zach, etc.
look at his body language and then look at zachs, bananas, CT. the last three are all very loud, obnoxious and sure of themselves. reilly has slumped shoulders, talks very quietly in an almost uncertain monotonous dynamic. this isnt an absolute certainty but theres definitely a correlation between how someones body language and how they perceive themselves. theres a reason nerds, dorks, insecure people tend to be less out there in terms of personality, no eye contact, etc.
2 things...good friend does not mean good boyfriend. furthermore all these "friends" of his on the challenge dont know him like avery. avery spent the most time with him considering she was living with him for years. you dont "know" somebody until youve lived with them. try to room with some of your allegedly amazing friends for several years and see how many of those friendships come out where you guys dont try to kill each other. familiarity breeds either love or hate
actually you dont even need to put yourself through that hell..just check the divorce statistics rate.
averey made one mistake...and that mistake was not dumping him as soon as he started neglecting her. she decided to seek comfort with this one guy shes dating now and that was represented as "cheating"...whatever you want to call it. i can see why she didnt dump reilly because she was across the country in no mans land.
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We get it you love Johnny Reily and dislike Averey.
and theres about five "avery cheated like OMG its just my opinion, i dont know why, but like, it just is" basic posts to every one of my own or someone else of the alternativ perspective on this forum so you can learn to get over it especially if the former isnt bothering you by sheer superior numbers. funnily enough only about a couple poster that offered the opposite viewpoint from myself made fair points that i happened to acknowledge and move on from.
you "getting it" doesnt determine what or when i post since im not your private tutor.
but if you or anyone else thats annoyed wants to show me that you understand the material well then heres your assignment:
Write me a 9000-word essay on the difficulties of relationships and how these are exacerbated when both of the members are not meeting their standards by a significant margin in categories such as personality, finance, physical appearance. Describe in detail abnormal scenarios that may promote unequal coupling and elaborate on why proximity plays a huge part in lucking out if one is less established in categories that are normally advertised in the dating scene.
Feel free to use primary and secondary sources such as the recording and national airing of jenn/adam on "The Challenge: Rivals" laura/brandon "St Thomas" etc.
Deadline: 5 minutes from now
sincerely,
teacher
That'd be so hot seeing Cohutta with another man.
What the hell even is going on here.
I'll just say that I hope MTV/BMP push for Averey next season.
Sometimes when im upset i take a timeout to cool off. You should try it
I think they will. She had a good showing this season so I definetly think she'll be asked back for next season.
Me too but she has to stop wining about Johnny.
I doubt she will talk about him at all.
that was so witty original and not a waste of bandwidth at all.
Hopefully you'll be using that cool off method when you get mad over my posts because Youll be seeing a lot of them
let me know when you finish that paper
Pleeeeeeaseeeee stoppppp.
Me too! She was hands down my favorite cast member this season...I'm not as thrilled with this season as I was hoping to be, but Avrery was my favorite part and was the only cast member I've really seemed to care about. I'd love to see how she would do on a team challenge or even a free agents type challenge.
Hallelujah!
I agree. Averey has been my favorite girl this season. I think she'd kick *** in an individual/team challenge format.
Yes! Averey is the best! I really hope we get to see her compete again next season!
Averey said Bananas was so mean to her this season but he gave her a hug at the end of exile and said you killed it for your first time.Part of me feels like Averey exaggerated Bananas being an *** to her and she was really just mad at the fact that he was friends with Reily and Nany's partner.
Yeah, I thought that was cool of him (can't believe I just said something nice about Backpack, I must be growing)! LOL
I feel sorry for you. You have a very vain and superificial outlook on life.
i just recognize the realities of most peoples evolutionary and biological imperatives...you know...the thing that has driven humanity for like ten thousands of years...so if anything that probably makes me less superficial than you. you live in delusion...a drugged up state, the fact that youre a fan of "dustin" as if you actually know him...lol... and watch an edited, glamorized tv show is an indirect admission of how you prefer the deluded "reality" that MTV gives to your own which is probably largely bland, repetitive, and x-factor-less filled with a job you probably dont care about or classes and schoolwork that occupy the time of about 1000 other things that youd prefer to do like shift your consciousness from reality to something fake like MTV exes 2 or some other television show.
Wow you guys are serious about reality tv. I just like the challenge.
I wouldn't doubt he's mean to people , I feel like after he got to know her he stopped and by that point he didn't know her as just " the girl who broke Johnny's heart"
it doesnt have to just be shows like the challenge
movies,tv, sports, video games, internet, forums(like this one), facebook, instagram, books, comics, music, dining out, junk food that is artificially flavored(not real food like salads), drugs, booze, spirituality, religion, etc.
all tools that we enjoy that are designed to be far from our normal lives
Im not saying it is a negative. Im just saying you guys really like this show.
We're on Vevmo, aren't we?
yes we are. and the moderators seem to be pretty chilled so we're good.
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