Tough Love

Hmmm, for some reason I'm leaning towards not gay. He has a long term girlfriend - though of course that means nothing hahaha. Sometimes when the girls are dressed up (or hardly dressed) he has this slightly leecherous look on his face that screams heterosexual.

[quote=V1man;59987]Ryan Seacrest has girlfriends, too. About him there really is no doubt...[/quote] Ah yes, but I've never seen Ryan giving the uncontrollable eyebrow raise/sleazy eye/creepy grin combo to some chick in lingerie spread eagle on a couch. I've only seen him give the calculating "I'm into women really" eyebrow raise and a faux creepy grin. Steve on the other hand I have, which convinces me that he's into chicks. There's a chance he might be a switch hitter, but I would put money on him more likely being metro hetero mama's boy.

I don't get the sense that he's that fond of her either, of course whether under different circumstances he'd sleep with her or any of the females on the show is an entirely different thing. [URL="http://blog.vh1.com/2009-03-31/tough-talk-from-steven-episode-3/"]Tough Talk From Steven - Episode 3 | Blog Archive | Vh1 Blog[/URL] The only thing that threw me off on the sexuality question was his response to the following question: [B][COLOR=red]What did you think of Arian’s comment about wanting to see if you really like women?[/COLOR][/B] [COLOR=red]Ask any of the women I date and they’ll tell you that they have no doubt in their minds where my s*** swings.[/COLOR] Usually that kind of hypermasculine response would set warning bells off in my head. But I am still leaning towards him being straight - though at the end of the day that's neither here nor there.

[quote=Stacee_Danielle;61032]I get the impression that Arian may not have been the best looking girl growing up and once she developed a bit. . .[/quote] Is "developed" code for plastic surgery and spray tan? I don't know, maybe she does really like *** but as Insider said, don't we all (at least those that have had enjoyable experiences)? I think it's more, she practically has daddy issues stamped across her forehead. Also after her reaction a couple of weeks ago the first thing that crossed my mind was that she has had some bad stuff happen to her that has lead to a deep mistrust of men and a need to take control ***ually. And I feel like am something of an expert on that because I, like RW Devyn, studied psychology on the "collegiate level" :buba: (That was sarcasm btw in case you missed it. . .) Maybe she does just really like skanky, back to back, anonymous *** though, it's certainly possible. More power to her if that's the case, guys act like big ole w****s all the time and no one tries to psychoanalyze them (though I for one think we should).

[quote=Stacee_Danielle;61149] I thought the same thing or something very similar but I don't really feel comfortable commenting on it when it is such a touchy subject for most people who have been through similar things.[/quote] Understand not wanting to comment on it S_D. I don't know her so I could be really far off, especially considering that we all know what the magic of editing can do, plus they are all actresses/performers so maybe she just auditioned for the role of "loose woman" and maybe her script said that she was supposed to make a dramatic exit when Steve made the comment he made to her a couple of weeks ago. I hope I'm wrong, it's not something anyone should have to experience. Forgive me if I come off as being a know it all- I guess for me, I've been there, so some of the stuff she does almost automatically sets off warning bells, perhaps prematurely. But I wouldn't want to see either Steve or his mom in anyway try to talk to her about that, I would in fact be offended if they did because they are in no way equiped to handle it appropriately. I was already uncomfortable with his suggestion that Arian is in some way inviting rape, I feel very strongly that no one invites rape. I know we all disagree about whether that was Steve's intent or not but I still didn't like it, it was clumsy and the whole "tough love" approach I think is dead wrong when it comes to something like that. Moving on, Jessa has kind of crazy eyes. She looked kind of like she wanted to stab Steve. When she made that comment about not liking him I was reminded that she's the "fatal attraction" one hahaha. I don't maybe that's just some good acting though, if it is than she should be Glen Close in the remake.