deeper wrote:Funny thing is a lot of us were agreeing with y’all but sourcup always has to interject with some bs like that
It’s not BS, it’s facts. You cannot say something that myself as a black person goes through almost daily, isn’t a big deal or I’m making something a big deal out of nothing because y’all don’t go through it.
we understand but trying to silence people saying we don’t get an opinion on situations just because it involves a black person is stupid. I don’t silence people on their opinions on LGBT stuff. I can argue with them but I don’t silence them.
I’m not saying you can’t have an opinion when it comes to a black person, I’m saying you can’t have an opinion on whether something is a big deal or not in situations like this where stereotypes and other forms of pure BS is going on and happens in the black community.
nah, I always listen and am respectful of where y’all come from before I type when it comes to AA issues in these situations. I just don’t like being told that we basically don’t have opinions. It’s a little crass and instead of making people understand you’re telling them to stop having opinions and to exit. That’s not really doing any good.
sourcup wrote:I'm done speaking in code and idc how any of y'all take this. If y'all arent black then your opinion in this particular situation is invalid and me not trill, graphik, TD, and many more do not give a single solitary **** about it. Y'all don't know how it feels to deal with these stereotypes and y'all would never get where we're coming from about the whole "character assassination" thing. He's trying to paint a picture of her and the fact that y'all arent seeing that picture he's trying to paint shows me where your intelligence is.
zzzzzz @ the black card once again. Every time a black person is in drama we are not allowed an opinion we get it I'm exiting now so don't bother @ing me
weren't you exiting? And Sour spilled so sarcasm or not you gave yourself your answer. When situations arrive much like today where there is connotation and there are racial undertones that explain why someone would react the way they do either listen or go about your day. We're not ASKING anybody for an opinion we're TELLING you *** is up period.
we're allowed an opinion whether you like it or not. If not go take it to a private message or discord.
and you'll keep getting the boot and told that your wrong. You might get a kick out White Gay antics of being in a marginalized group yet coincendtally always being at the forefront of telling someone it's not a big deal when it's black shit, but the rest of us don't.
Well then. Sourcup said what they said & before Kajun or anyone else come in here talkin about sourcoup is an alt he isn’t. So lets kill that before it even starts.
I’m not sure why are you are coming for me so hard today lol. I never knew there was an issue, I always respected your opinions.
sourcup wrote:I'm done speaking in code and idc how any of y'all take this. If y'all arent black then your opinion in this particular situation is invalid and me not trill, graphik, TD, and many more do not give a single solitary **** about it. Y'all don't know how it feels to deal with these stereotypes and y'all would never get where we're coming from about the whole "character assassination" thing. He's trying to paint a picture of her and the fact that y'all arent seeing that picture he's trying to paint shows me where your intelligence is.
zzzzzz @ the black card once again. Every time a black person is in drama we are not allowed an opinion we get it I'm exiting now so don't bother @ing me
weren't you exiting? And Sour spilled so sarcasm or not you gave yourself your answer. When situations arrive much like today where there is connotation and there are racial undertones that explain why someone would react the way they do either listen or go about your day. We're not ASKING anybody for an opinion we're TELLING you *** is up period.
we're allowed an opinion whether you like it or not. If not go take it to a private message or discord.
and you'll keep getting the boot and told that your wrong. You might get a kick out White Gay antics of being in a marginalized group yet coincendtally always being at the forefront of telling someone it's not a big deal when it's black ****, but the rest of us don't.
**** when sweetie? Pull some receipts. I listen to you conversations and actually try to have dialogue.
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn’t work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn’t work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn’t work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
I mean it would be lovely if we could all kumbaya my lord with a blunt in rotation but humanity consistently shows that can't be the case for reasons. *shrugs*
I know Day ain't the one out here bringing up other folks children & constantly throwing out slick, suspect remarks......you can say the same for way too many other women throughout the duration of the show & some of the men too.
Let's pull up Queen CeeJai's thread while we're at it along with The Queen's Portland thread.
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn’t work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
If you are referring to me it’s not kumbaya, it’s common decency and respect. It is a life skill we all need. This is a Challenge message board where we discuss what is happening in the Challenge world.
Well then. Sourcup said what they said & before Kajun or anyone else come in here talkin about sourcoup is an alt he isn’t. So lets kill that before it even starts.
I’m not sure why are you are coming for me so hard today lol. I never knew there was an issue, I always respected your opinions.
I had to shut it down because i’ve seen you call him an alt on a few occasions, you like to pull that card. Just had to stop it before it started *shrugs*
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn’t work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
If you are referring to me it’s not kumbaya, it’s common decency and respect. It is a life skill we all need. This is a Challenge message board where we discuss what is happening in the Challenge world.
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn’t work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
If you are referring to me it’s not kumbaya, it’s common decency and respect. It is a life skill we all need. This is a Challenge message board where we discuss what is happening in the Challenge world.
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn’t work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
If you are referring to me it’s not kumbaya, it’s common decency and respect. It is a life skill we all need. This is a Challenge message board where we discuss what is happening in the Challenge world.
Anything Kajun says loses credibility after he called Susies child ugly. **** he always ignores me when I bring it up too. Hes a wild reckless human being, Imagine being so bothered by a castmember to the point where you get off on insulting their adolescent child who cant even defens their self.
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn't work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
If you are referring to me it's not kumbaya, it's common decency and respect. It is a life skill we all need. This is a Challenge message board where we discuss what is happening in the Challenge world.
when we discuss challenge related topics like eliminations and whatever then I'll show y'all decency and we can laugh and giggle. Shit like today is a real world issue with real implications on a much bigger picture and I'm not beating around the bush about that. Shit like that hurts people that look like me and to see people even hint that there are two sides to it or a debate up for discussion is ridiculous. I don't feel bad for not giving a single ****
Anything Kajun says loses credibility after he called Susies child ugly. **** he always ignores me when I bring it up too. Hes a wild reckless human being, Imagine being so bothered by a castmember to the point where you get off on insulting their adolescent child who cant even defens their self.
I thought Day was tweeting at Wes with those threats. My mistake. Either way, she shouldn't resort to that. She's way too classy & intellligent for that mentality. Argue the point that that sets a good example for your child. I dare you. Wes is scum for starting this shit. I want to see Dayvonne just rise above & be the better person we know she is.
TuesDaze wrote:Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn't work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
If you are referring to me it's not kumbaya, it's common decency and respect. It is a life skill we all need. This is a Challenge message board where we discuss what is happening in the Challenge world.
when we discuss challenge related topics like eliminations and whatever then I'll show y'all decency and we can laugh and giggle. **** like today is a real world issue with real implications on a much bigger picture and I'm not beating around the bush about that. **** like that hurts people that look like me and to see people even hint that there are two sides to it or a debate up for discussion is ridiculous. I don't feel bad for not giving a single ****
Bringing up a bad thing someone said once does not discredit their opinions on all subjects, what a stupid mentality lol
What a stupid mentality that you think you can have an opinion on what goes on in the black community.
what a stupid mentality that you think people aren’t allowed to. I understand the situation. In my eyes, Wes isn’t trying to paint her as the angry black woman, he’s trying to get under her skin and come for her at a personal level and it’s obviously working. He took it too far, but he’s done it before. It has nothing to do with her being black and everything to do with Wes playing his games and backing it up anyway he can.
I also understand that Day is 1. Sensitive and 2. Very aware of how she can be portrayed. So obviously getting under her skin with her being a mom plays into what he wants he’s using old receipts to tie his story together but doesn’t understand she, as a black woman, will not stand for being disrespected but also will not stand for being portrayed as an angry black woman in the eyes of casual viewers.
Im team Day, as I get it and am especially tired of people coming for mothers but not fathers on this show, so instead of coming for people and acting like they can’t have opinions, why don’t you try better to convey what you are trying to say.
Basically I’m saying I know why it’s a big deal to Day and why it’s not a big deal to Wes when looking at both sides. I’m still Team Day in this situation and Wes needs to chill and apologize and stop trying to rehash old receipts to back his stupid game.
deeper wrote:Bringing up a bad thing someone said once does not discredit their opinions on all subjects, what a stupid mentality lol
What a stupid mentality that you think you can have an opinion on what goes on in the black community.
what a stupid mentality that you think people aren’t allowed to. I understand the situation. In my eyes, Wes isn’t trying to paint her as the angry black woman, he’s trying to get under her skin and come for her at a personal level and it’s obviously working. He took it too far, but he’s done it before. It has nothing to do with her being black and everything to do with Wes playing his games and backing it up anyway he can.
I also understand that Day is 1. Sensitive and 2. Very aware of how she can be portrayed. So obviously getting under her skin with her being a mom plays into what he wants he’s using old receipts to tie his story together but doesn’t understand she, as a black woman, will not stand for being disrespected but also will not stand for being portrayed as an angry black woman in the eyes of casual viewers.
Im team Day, as I get it and am especially tired of people coming for mothers but not fathers on this show, so instead of coming for people and acting like they can’t have opinions, why don’t you try better to convey what you are trying to say.
Anything Kajun says loses credibility after he called Susies child ugly. **** he always ignores me when I bring it up too. Hes a wild reckless human being, Imagine being so bothered by a castmember to the point where you get off on insulting their adolescent child who cant even defens their self.
I have never ignored that. I have stated my apology on here multiple times. That comment was disgusting, uncalled for, and unacceptable. We are all humans...we all make poor choices sometimes and that comment was an AWFUL choice.
deeper wrote:Bringing up a bad thing someone said once does not discredit their opinions on all subjects, what a stupid mentality lol
What a stupid mentality that you think you can have an opinion on what goes on in the black community.
what a stupid mentality that you think people aren’t allowed to. I understand the situation. In my eyes, Wes isn’t trying to paint her as the angry black woman, he’s trying to get under her skin and come for her at a personal level and it’s obviously working. He took it too far, but he’s done it before. It has nothing to do with her being black and everything to do with Wes playing his games and backing it up anyway he can. I also understand that Day is 1. Sensitive and 2. Very aware of how she can be portrayed. So obviously getting under her skin with her being a mom plays into what he wants he’s using old receipts to tie his story together but doesn’t understand she, as a black woman, will not stand for being disrespected but also will not stand for being portrayed as an angry black woman in the eyes of casual viewers. Im team Day, as I get it and am especially tired of people coming for mothers but not fathers on this show, so instead of coming for people and acting like they can’t have opinions, why don’t you try better to convey what you are trying to say.
Save the speech for someone who cares because it’s definitely not me.
deeper wrote:Bringing up a bad thing someone said once does not discredit their opinions on all subjects, what a stupid mentality lol
What a stupid mentality that you think you can have an opinion on what goes on in the black community.
what a stupid mentality that you think people aren’t allowed to. I understand the situation. In my eyes, Wes isn’t trying to paint her as the angry black woman, he’s trying to get under her skin and come for her at a personal level and it’s obviously working. He took it too far, but he’s done it before. It has nothing to do with her being black and everything to do with Wes playing his games and backing it up anyway he can. I also understand that Day is 1. Sensitive and 2. Very aware of how she can be portrayed. So obviously getting under her skin with her being a mom plays into what he wants he’s using old receipts to tie his story together but doesn’t understand she, as a black woman, will not stand for being disrespected but also will not stand for being portrayed as an angry black woman in the eyes of casual viewers. Im team Day, as I get it and am especially tired of people coming for mothers but not fathers on this show, so instead of coming for people and acting like they can’t have opinions, why don’t you try better to convey what you are trying to say.
Save the speech for someone who cares because it’s definitely not me.
then don’t tell people to exit and not have opinions if you are gonna be closed off yourself
deeper wrote:Bringing up a bad thing someone said once does not discredit their opinions on all subjects, what a stupid mentality lol
What a stupid mentality that you think you can have an opinion on what goes on in the black community.
what a stupid mentality that you think people aren't allowed to. I understand the situation. In my eyes, Wes isn't trying to paint her as the angry black woman, he's trying to get under her skin and come for her at a personal level and it's obviously working. He took it too far, but he's done it before. It has nothing to do with her being black and everything to do with Wes playing his games and backing it up anyway he can. I also understand that Day is 1. Sensitive and 2. Very aware of how she can be portrayed. So obviously getting under her skin with her being a mom plays into what he wants he's using old receipts to tie his story together but doesn't understand she, as a black woman, will not stand for being disrespected but also will not stand for being portrayed as an angry black woman in the eyes of casual viewers. Im team Day, as I get it and am especially tired of people coming for mothers but not fathers on this show, so instead of coming for people and acting like they can't have opinions, why don't you try better to convey what you are trying to say.
Save the speech for someone who cares because it's definitely not me.
then don't tell people to exit and not have opinions if you are gonna be closed off yourself
I'm gonna do whatever the **** I want to that's for starters and secondly like I said, I don't care about your opinions or statements therefore I'm "closed off".
nah, I always listen and am respectful of where y’all come from before I type when it comes to AA issues in these situations. I just don’t like being told that we basically don’t have opinions. It’s a little crass and instead of making people understand you’re telling them to stop having opinions and to exit. That’s not really doing any good.
and you'll keep getting the boot and told that your wrong. You might get a kick out White Gay antics of being in a marginalized group yet coincendtally always being at the forefront of telling someone it's not a big deal when it's black shit, but the rest of us don't.
I’m not sure why are you are coming for me so hard today lol. I never knew there was an issue, I always respected your opinions.
**** when sweetie? Pull some receipts. I listen to you conversations and actually try to have dialogue.
Eh that kumbaya stuff is nice in theory but doesn’t work. Not every point of view is needed in a situation so very centered on one race being the brunt of it
I mean it would be lovely if we could all kumbaya my lord with a blunt in rotation but humanity consistently shows that can't be the case for reasons. *shrugs*
I know Day ain't the one out here bringing up other folks children & constantly throwing out slick, suspect remarks......you can say the same for way too many other women throughout the duration of the show & some of the men too.
Let's pull up Queen CeeJai's thread while we're at it along with The Queen's Portland thread.
**** AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT REMEMBERS WES SAYING HOW HIM AND HIS BOYS WOULD INTRODUCE VINNY TO AN ALLEY.... LIKE ***
If you are referring to me it’s not kumbaya, it’s common decency and respect. It is a life skill we all need. This is a Challenge message board where we discuss what is happening in the Challenge world.
I had to shut it down because i’ve seen you call him an alt on a few occasions, you like to pull that card. Just had to stop it before it started *shrugs*
SO WHEN WHITE WES SAYS HE DOESNT SEE A PROBLEM IN HISSELF LOL
#TeamDay
and The Challenge derives from The Real World.
Which are both Reality shows
Anything Kajun says loses credibility after he called Susies child ugly. **** he always ignores me when I bring it up too. Hes a wild reckless human being, Imagine being so bothered by a castmember to the point where you get off on insulting their adolescent child who cant even defens their self.
when we discuss challenge related topics like eliminations and whatever then I'll show y'all decency and we can laugh and giggle. Shit like today is a real world issue with real implications on a much bigger picture and I'm not beating around the bush about that. Shit like that hurts people that look like me and to see people even hint that there are two sides to it or a debate up for discussion is ridiculous. I don't feel bad for not giving a single ****
*sips every last drop of that tea*
I thought Day was tweeting at Wes with those threats. My mistake. Either way, she shouldn't resort to that. She's way too classy & intellligent for that mentality. Argue the point that that sets a good example for your child. I dare you. Wes is scum for starting this shit. I want to see Dayvonne just rise above & be the better person we know she is.
PERIOD!
Bringing up a bad thing someone said once does not discredit their opinions on all subjects, what a stupid mentality lol
What a stupid mentality that you think you can have an opinion on what goes on in the black community.
what a stupid mentality that you think people aren’t allowed to. I understand the situation. In my eyes, Wes isn’t trying to paint her as the angry black woman, he’s trying to get under her skin and come for her at a personal level and it’s obviously working. He took it too far, but he’s done it before. It has nothing to do with her being black and everything to do with Wes playing his games and backing it up anyway he can.
I also understand that Day is 1. Sensitive and 2. Very aware of how she can be portrayed. So obviously getting under her skin with her being a mom plays into what he wants he’s using old receipts to tie his story together but doesn’t understand she, as a black woman, will not stand for being disrespected but also will not stand for being portrayed as an angry black woman in the eyes of casual viewers.
Im team Day, as I get it and am especially tired of people coming for mothers but not fathers on this show, so instead of coming for people and acting like they can’t have opinions, why don’t you try better to convey what you are trying to say.
Basically I’m saying I know why it’s a big deal to Day and why it’s not a big deal to Wes when looking at both sides. I’m still Team Day in this situation and Wes needs to chill and apologize and stop trying to rehash old receipts to back his stupid game.
I have never ignored that. I have stated my apology on here multiple times. That comment was disgusting, uncalled for, and unacceptable. We are all humans...we all make poor choices sometimes and that comment was an AWFUL choice.
Save the speech for someone who cares because it’s definitely not me.
then don’t tell people to exit and not have opinions if you are gonna be closed off yourself
I'm gonna do whatever the **** I want to that's for starters and secondly like I said, I don't care about your opinions or statements therefore I'm "closed off".
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