[QUOTE=JayTee;445050]Sounds to me like you guys are swingers lol I would never be cool with my girl spending time with her ex and she'd kill me if I were to spend time with mines. There's a difference between being secure about yourself and just being straight out dumb. If you don't enforce any kind of boundaries then anything is possible. You probably got cheated on multiple times and don't even know it.[/QUOTE]
I don't really get this logic. I know plenty of people who are friends with their exes and in a new relationship. Hell, two of my best friends from when I was little dated throughout HS and college and now they're both in separate relationships but still hang out. They don't really hang-out 1-on-1 so much, but there's no awkwardness or fear of cheating. Granted, we're only 24 but yeah it can definitely be done.
[QUOTE=LurkerNoMore;445051]Or it could be CT & Nany and Johnny & ?. Perhaps Johnny's partner is the one causing confusion.[/QUOTE]
That's what I'm thinking is a possibility.
[QUOTE=kvm1977;445052]I think they'd take Johnny over CT right now[/QUOTE]
Why? CT is more popular and brings views?
My bff is my ex and nobody never think we could be more again. His gf does not mind it, she likes me. Everybody knows we are now like brother and sister and most are even forgotten we dated once. Nothing isn't so black&white
[QUOTE=kvm1977;445054]This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever read in my life. Trusting someone that you can trust is never dumb. You'll mature and figure all of this out.[/QUOTE]
I could never give all my trust to anybody that isn't my mom, but that's just me. I've seen friends of mine get cheated on in some of the worst ways possible and all in secrecy and it's just vile. And you're over here saying you'd let your wife go on a month long vacation with her ex on a Challenge where they would need to bond closer than ever.
[QUOTE=JayTee;445058]I could never give all my trust to anybody that isn't my mom, but that's just me. I've seen friends of mine get cheated on in some of the worst ways possible and all in secrecy and it's just vile. [B]And you're over here saying you'd let your wife go on a month long vacation with her ex on a Challenge where they would need to bond closer than ever.[/B][/QUOTE]
Because my wife isn't one of those *****s that cheated on your friends.
[QUOTE=gamer73;445056]That's what I'm thinking is a possibility.[/QUOTE]
The options are limited, so it'll be interesting to see the end result if this is the case. Maybe Ashli got Trisha to change her mind (I highly doubt it though).
[QUOTE=MTV Junky;445060]You have relationship issues if you can't trust your wife on a month long vacation.[/QUOTE]
With her ex-boyfriend? Never in a million years would I ever let my future wife do that. I'd rather be called insecure and maintain the pants in the relationship than let my future wife get some D on the downlow.
[QUOTE=JayTee;445063]With her ex-boyfriend? Never in a million years would I ever let my future wife do that. I'd rather be called insecure and maintain the pants in the relationship than let my future wife get some D on the downlow.[/QUOTE]
Like I said if your wife is "getting the d on the downlow" your relationship has issues.
[QUOTE=JayTee;445063]With her ex-boyfriend? Never in a million years would I ever let my future wife do that. I'd rather be called insecure and maintain the pants in the relationship than let my future wife get some D on the downlow.[/QUOTE]
You won't be married long. I mean, you're sometimes ridiculous but this is just sad. Not everyone cheats. Accept that.
[QUOTE=MTV Junky;445065]Like I said if your wife is "getting the d on the downlow" your relationship has issues.[/QUOTE]
And if she wants to get "the d" on the downlow she's going to do it regardless of what one doesn't to try to stop her
Everyones relationship is different.
I would never let my boyfriend compete with their ex. Especially because I hate all their exes and the exes hate me. Plus, it isn't my significant other I don't trust its the **** out here. Being away for a few weeks could give them the courage to TRY to rekindle an old flame and while it may not work that's embarrassing to you because its on tv too.
So I get why SOME people do it. Plus, I've always been the one to where like if I'm dating someone and someone else is flirting with them and my bf is flirting back, I don't get mad at him, I get mad at the person flirting with him and I wanna kill them lol
[QUOTE=JayTee;445063]With her ex-boyfriend? Never in a million years would I ever let my future wife do that. I'd rather be called insecure and maintain the pants in the relationship than let my future wife get some D on the downlow.[/QUOTE]
It isn't something I'd jump for joy over, but if I trusted my significant other (as one should), there shouldn't be an issue. Unless it's Nany you're dating, that's a whole different ballgame.
[QUOTE=Livewitpeace;445069]Everyones relationship is different.
I would never let my boyfriend compete with their ex. Especially because I hate all their exes and the exes hate me.[B] Plus, it isn't my significant other I don't trust its the **** out here.[/B] Being away for a few weeks could give them the courage to TRY to rekindle an old flame and while it may not work that's embarrassing to you because its on tv too.
So I get why SOME people do it. Plus, I've always been the one to where like if I'm dating someone and someone else is flirting with them and my bf is flirting back, I don't get mad at him, I get mad at the person flirting with him and I wanna kill them lol[/QUOTE]
He has the final say regardless of those ****.
[QUOTE=kvm1977;445066]You won't be married long. I mean, you're sometimes ridiculous but this is just sad. Not everyone cheats. Accept that.[/QUOTE]
Lmao it's ridiculous to even consider letting your wife go on a month long vacation with her ex-boyfriend and believe that absolutely nothing will ever happen because you both "trust" each other.
[QUOTE=LurkerNoMore;445073]It isn't something I'd jump for joy over, but if I trusted my significant other (as one should), there shouldn't be an issue. Unless it's Nany you're dating, that's a whole different ballgame.[/QUOTE]
Haha--that's why you don't date Nany
[QUOTE=JayTee;445076]Lmao it's ridiculous to even consider letting your wife go on a month long vacation with her ex-boyfriend and believe that absolutely nothing will ever happen because you both "trust" each other.[/QUOTE]
Why would something happen? We've been together for 15 years but a month away will force her to cheat :dejection:
[QUOTE=JayTee;445076]Lmao it's ridiculous to even consider letting your wife go on a month long vacation with her ex-boyfriend and believe that absolutely nothing will ever happen because you both "trust" each other.[/QUOTE]
Exhibit A as to why the divorce rate is so high.
Don't get married if you don't intend to be faithful.
[QUOTE=stuufman;445077]It would be great that Johnny goes all confident that he is going to be with nany and all of the sudden they have Casey there.[/QUOTE]
That would suck. I'm actually the only one here rooting for Bananas to go for 6.
[QUOTE=JayTee;445083]That would suck. I'm actually the only one here rooting for Bananas to go for 6.[/QUOTE]
If Bananas wins that's fine with me but I'd like to see some competition for him
[QUOTE=kvm1977;445087]If Bananas wins that's fine with me but I'd like to see some competition for him[/QUOTE]
Or least him partnered with someone that levels the playing field.
[QUOTE=MTV Junky;445081]Exhibit A as to why the divorce rate is so high.
Don't get married if you don't intend to be faithful.[/QUOTE]
Oh I don't plan on getting married anytime soon. I'll just be here chilling like Kermit The Frog sipping my tea while I let everyone else think their wives would be 100% loyal going on a month long vacation with their ex.
[QUOTE=kvm1977;445075]He has the final say regardless of those hoes.[/QUOTE]
Very true but I've been cheated on twice so I don't trust many, at least right now. All in all I plan to stay away from men on reality tv. Too much can come with it. I'd like a millionaire with a real career that allows us to go away for 6 weeks to the middle of nowhere :cool:
[QUOTE=Livewitpeace;445092]Very true but I've been cheated on twice so I don't trust many, at least right now. All in all I plan to stay away from men on reality tv. Too much can come with it. [B][COLOR="#FF0000"]I'd like a millionaire with a real career that allows us to go away for 6 weeks to the middle of nowhere[/COLOR][/B] :cool:[/QUOTE]
Well, you're not asking for much.
[QUOTE=gamer73;445094]Take it somewhere else FFS![/QUOTE]
gamer, weren't you the one who originally reported Trisha being asked? Any possibility she may have changed her mind?
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