Real World: Dunbar and Ashli - Spoilers!

I saw on another website, someone had said that the episode summary for next weekwas up on MTV.com , i really dont understand why MTV does things like that. If your going to put the written summary up, you might as well just put up the whole video episode, and if you are going to take Trisha out of the picture on the website like 3 episodes before she leaves, why even bother trying to create suspense about whether or not she goes home? Anyways, in the summary it says the girls begin to become friends again, mainly Parisa and KellyAnne. It also says that Dunbar and Ashli have sex.. I never understood what made girls think that having sex with a guy who has a girlfriend, and who was been saying openly "I love Julie", is normal. Do they have no respect for themselves, or for another person? I am totally grossed out by it, but also by Dunbar, who seems to think its ok to make Julie basically look like she doesnt matter at all to him on national TV. Seriously you can control yourself that much. pathetic.. Julie either needs to kick some *** or dump Dunbar.

[B]Episode recap from MTV for next week's episode that has yet to air[/B] - [I]thanks for the tip SpicedLatte![/I] They accidentally put this recap in place of where the recap for last night's episode should be and it has yet to be removed. Didn't I say that after Myspace, MTV.com is the best place to get spoilers? ;) [QUOTE] It's a gloomy day in Sydney when prodigal son Isaac returns to the house, eager to let loose and party after attending his grandfather's funeral. The roommates welcome him back and fill him in on Trisha's exile. To KellyAnne's surprise, Isaac is happy to see Trisha go and not buying into the house hatred of Parisa. Meanwhile in couple-land, Ashli talks to a friend about her burgeoning non-romance with Dunbar. She admits that she's been sleeping in his bed every night, but suspects he's growing more and more uncomfortable with the situation. Isaac gives Parisa some much needed support, reminding her that not only is he happy that Trisha's gone, but so are Dunbar, Cohutta and deep down, KellyAnne too. Parisa feels a lot better but warns him that Ashli's become the new KellyAnne and KellyAnne's taken over Trisha's role. Ashli and Dunbar continue to fill Isaac in on the less dramatic happenings in the house, including Ashli's appointment as the new team leader for Isaac's Contiki team. Knowing that Ashli hates Parisa for making Trisha leave, Isaac decides to stir things up, questioning why Ashli liked Trisha in the first place. The best Ashli can come up with: Trisha was fun to party with. KellyAnne claims she wants to try and be civil with Parisa. When Parisa confuses this civility with an attempt to pretend nothing ever happened with them, the girls again butt heads because KellyAnne refuses to apologize for her actions. Dunbar worries about people thinking he's trying to have sex with Ashli and vice versa. Ashli finally gets frustrated with his constant complaining and reminders of how much he loves his girlfriend and heads out for the night without him. Dunbar admits to Isaac that he's worried about getting messed up and taking things with Ashli too far. Over drinks and dinner, Ashli and KellyAnne chit chat about Isaac's return and his feelings on Trisha's exit. The girls fess up that Trisha had a lot of qualities they didn't admire and may even understand Parisa's decision to make Trisha leave. Inspired by a drunken stroll to the fish tank, Isaac decides naked snorkeling is the best way to keep the night going. The roommates all gather to watch. If they weren't happy to have Isaac back before, they are now. As Cohutta put it, "sometimes a man just feels the need to get naked and swim with goldfish". The party continues as Isaac demands everyone take shots in honor of Dunbar's birthday (which it indeed is not). Clearly, a drunken roommate hot tub is in order. And what better place for KellyAnne and Parisa to have a heart to heart about everything that's happened? Kelly Ann apologizes but Parisa warns her it's going to take more than an "I'm sorry". On the other end of the hot tub, Ashli and Dunbar hash things out about their non-relationship. Ashli is annoyed with how paranoid he gets, even though she's never tried anything sexual with him. Dunbar whispers in her ear that he just doesn't want to make her mad at him and they come to some kind of peace. Another sleepover ensues and both Dunbar and Ashli stress over how much the other tempts them. They claim they'll just spoon again that night, but the covers are pulled up and it sounds like more than just spooning's going on. Sure enough, the next day Ashli emails her friend and informs her that [B]she and Dunbar had sex[/B] and it meant something to her. Dunbar calls Julie but decides he doesn't want to tell her for fear of her sleeping with someone else. KellyAnne and Parisa again talk about what's happened between them. Both girls feel the friendship is going in a better place now that they both understand where the other is coming from. Isaac opens up some to Parisa about his grandfather's death. Before things can get too serious, Isaac prompts Parisa to run through a fountain and go swimming in it. Parisa feels Isaac's return has offered them all a new start and gives him a big wet hug in appreciation.[/QUOTE] So Dunbar really did do the nasty [I][B]WITH[/B][/I] nasty...I'd be really interested to hear what Julie has to say about this!

Issac Is Fun As Hell!! Dunbar Why Did You Succumb To The *********

[B]Dunbar worries about people thinking he's trying to have sex with Ashli and vice versa. [/B] Ummm.. usually if you are worried people are going to think you are trying to have sex with a girl, its prob a good idea to NOT have sex with the girl. I know that it is a really complex and hard concept, so maybe Dunbar had trouble understanding it. And as far as Ashli, she goes out to clubs and there are a million guys she could prob take home if they were drunk enough, why is she so fixed on one guy who has a girlfriend.

Julie and Dunbar are still together right??? WTF is she thinking????? How can you watch your bf do things like that on TV and still stay with him? I swear if i have to hear Assli say"Ooh Dubar you're so bad" one more time I might shoot myself, lol. Or maybe make it a drinking game

[QUOTE=Katiedid;2718]Hoooooly Shoit! Ok, I have to ask, who works for mtv.com?? I mean really?? This is one in a long line of 'whoopsies' over there, lol! Okay, well we all called it. Isaac comes back and has enough of a pair to say what Trisha really is, and tweedle dee and dumb of the girls automatically flip their judgements of their great friend Trisha. I'm glad Isaac is the good guy that he is, because if he had come home and either let the girls continue to treat Parisa like crap and not say anything about it (like the other two boys) or even joined in, poor Parisa would be stuck for another miserable two months. SOOO Dunbar and Ashli really do get it on??? I'm suprised in a way, but not really. I mean, really, there's only so many times a guy and girl can SLEEP IN THE SAME BED and only 'spoon.' What did Dunbar THINK was going to happen if he continued to sleep in the same bed with a girl he was attracted to?? That is just playing with fire. That's probably why he gets so mad at her in previews we have seen. In his mind he probably blames her and her temptress ways. And while I'll admit that Assli came on pretty strong, Dunbar knew exactly what he was doing. It takes two to tango, buddy. I have to wonder how Julie can stay with him after this. To be cheated on is bad enough. To be cheated on on national television, with your friends, family, and co workers watching is just insane. I mean, who will respect her if she stays with him after the utter lack of respect he has shown for her on national tv!! And you know he would have jumped in the sack waaaay sooner had it not been for the cameras. How can she bring him home to the family for Christmas? How can she trust him to go out of town to bar appearances with throngs of drunk groupies much better looking than Ashli in tow? How can she trust him to go on a booze filled RW challenge on foreign soil for goodness sakes?? JULIE PLEASE DUMP HIM... for your own self respect and peace of mind![/QUOTE] I agree with you one hundred percent! I cannot fathom that Julie would stay with this cheater. Mississippi really is a small community, everybody knows somebody who knows somebody else. How embarressing for her family, I am watching because I know somebody that knows him very well and grew up with Dunbar in Natchez. Every time I watch Dunbar I cringe for Julie having to go through this mess. I am just waiting to run into Dunbar at Ole Miss when we go back to Oxford, it is a very small college town, I would have to say something to him if I saw him on the square or in a bar. He would probably go pyscho on me and my husband would have to defend me, but I hate guys like that. He is definitely a serial cheater. Run Julie Run!

What if Julie just found out? I get the impression from the recap that he was not going to tell her until he was back home and could control her. Maybe instead of being at the forgiveness stage she is still in the finding out stage? You know how guys like to procrastinate. He probably got home from Sydney and then thought to himself, "errrr....I'll just wait to tell her next week...." All of a sudden, [B]THAT[/B] week is [B]THIS[/B] week! I'll be watching Julie's myspace closely to see if anything changes over the next few days. ;)

[quote=Katiedid;2726]It's hard to say. I remember reading an interview either before the season aired or at the very beginning of RWS. It was with Dunbar and a few questions with Julie, and I think she said something to the extent of "He was bad, but I've forgiven him" or something like that. I will have to try and find that link really quick before I head to bed.[/quote] I am familiar with that story where Julie says that they are still together. I am just wondering if she got the whole truth back then or an edited version. :D [B][SIZE=3]"We were drunk and just kissed baby, and it meant nothing![/SIZE][/B][B]"[/B]... [SIZE=1](*cough* ...and had sex *cough* )[/SIZE]

I kinda think he either has cheated and she forgave before OR she is just finding out and now she has been with him so long after he slept with Assli that she thinks it would be pointless to break up. I really feel sorry for this girl, who knows maybe she is morman and that it is normal, LOL.

I can't believe Assli emailed her friend about it. Nothing like being proud that you slept with the guy that has a girlfriend. It's def something to write home about. "OMG I totally slept with Dunbar last night. I knew if I just kept sleeping in his bed his will would break. i totally think he's going to leave Julie and be with me now. I mean how could he not, we had SEX!" lol I imagine the email went something like that.

[QUOTE=Italianvix;2732]I can't believe Assli emailed her friend about it. Nothing like being proud that you slept with the guy that has a girlfriend. It's def something to write home about. "OMG I totally slept with Dunbar last night. I knew if I just kept sleeping in his bed his will would break. i totally think he's going to leave Julie and be with me now. I mean how could he not, we had SEX!" lol I imagine the email went something like that.[/QUOTE] I think she wrote home about it because her friends are just as big ***** as she is, did you guys see her stuff on another thread from her Blog? she wrote them so they will feel sorry for her since she is the "other woman" I just don't think she is going to even really care about Dunbar after this, she seems like the type of girl who is satisfied once "she gets what she wants" beside she hasn't even witnessed what a ****** he is anyway. just wait until he starts treating her like shit cause "She hurt Julie" since he will never admit he had any part in it.

ooh true. Can't wait to see that. I forgot she was the type of girl that just wants to see if she can get the taken guy.

[QUOTE=stacee_danielle;2730]I kinda think he either has cheated and she forgave before OR she is just finding out and now she has been with him so long after he slept with Assli that she thinks it would be pointless to break up. I really feel sorry for this girl, who knows maybe she is morman and that it is normal, LOL.[/QUOTE] Do you think they get an advanced copy of the season? I can just hear Dunbar trying to blame this on Julie since she was being so imature and called him Dummybear or maybe saying well you never called me much or you hung up on me. He seems like an abuser, an emotional one. I think I will call my friend who knows Dunbar's roomate and see if she could get the scoop.

[quote=chopkins;2736]Do you think they get an advanced copy of the season? I can just hear Dunbar trying to blame this on Julie since she was being so imature and called him Dummybear or maybe saying well you never called me much or you hung up on me. He seems like an abuser, an emotional one. I think I will call my friend who knows Dunbar's roomate and see if she could get the scoop.[/quote] Scoop is good! ;) I am not sure if they get an advance of the entire season. I always assumed they got a DVD with the upcoming episode the week it aired.

[QUOTE=chopkins;2736]Do you think they get an advanced copy of the season? I can just hear Dunbar trying to blame this on Julie since she was being so imature and called him Dummybear or maybe saying well you never called me much or you hung up on me. He seems like an abuser, an emotional one. I think I will call my friend who knows Dunbar's roomate and see if she could get the scoop.[/QUOTE] or the oh so famous "editing" excuse, and he will just say that Julie is lying about it. Who knows with a guy like this, but I think your closer to the truth than I am. He is the worst kind of abuser there is, the kind that makes you feel like everything is your fault not thiers. Poor Julie, I feel so bad for her...Did anyone else notice she barely got an air time when she was there though I am wondering if there was more to her visit liek Dunbar saying that Parisa was a ***** to Julie, never saw that once, did any of you?

[quote=stacee_danielle;2740]or the oh so famous "editing" excuse, and he will just say that Julie is lying about it. Who knows with a guy like this, but I think your closer to the truth than I am. He is the worst kind of abuser there is, the kind that makes you feel like everything is your fault not thiers. Poor Julie, I feel so bad for her...Did anyone else notice she barely got an air time when she was there though I am wondering if there was more to her visit liek Dunbar saying that Parisa was a ***** to Julie, never saw that once, did any of you?[/quote] A little birdy told me that they probably were watching a few days in advance of each episode, so it is not like Dubar and Julie sat down in August and watched everything unfold. I think the Dunbar & Julie full disclosure conversation did not happen until he got back from Sydney so she would not have revenge sex while he was away and unable to psychically control her. It probably sounded something like this: [B]Dunbar:[/B] "I just wanted to tell you, Julie, that you made me mad on purpose and I ended up sleeping with a girl in Australia. Luckily for you, I am forgiving and will absolve you of any wrong doing in making me commit the act that might have cost us our relationship. Don't let it happen again." [B]Julie:[/B] "Ok."

[QUOTE=Bacchus;2765] [B]Dunbar:[/B] "I just wanted to tell you, Julie, that you made me mad on purpose and I ended up sleeping with a girl in Australia. Luckily for you, I am forgiving and will absolve you of any wrong doing in making me commit the act that might have cost us our relationship. Don't let it happen again." [B]Julie:[/B] "Ok."[/QUOTE] and it is so sad and pathetic

[QUOTE=Bacchus;2765] [B]Dunbar:[/B] "I just wanted to tell you, Julie, that you made me mad on purpose and I ended up sleeping with a girl in Australia. Luckily for you, I am forgiving and will absolve you of any wrong doing in making me commit the act that might have cost us our relationship. Don't let it happen again." [/QUOTE] ahh, that air tight Dummiebearian logic at work again. I hope for nothing more than to see him single and full of contrition on the reunion show.

[QUOTE=Bacchus;2765]A little birdy told me that they probably were watching a few days in advance of each episode, so it is not like Dubar and Julie sat down in August and watched everything unfold. I think the Dunbar & Julie full disclosure conversation did not happen until he got back from Sydney so she would not have revenge sex while he was away and unable to psychically control her. It probably sounded something like this: [B]Dunbar:[/B] "I just wanted to tell you, Julie, that you made me mad on purpose and I ended up sleeping with a girl in Australia. Luckily for you, I am forgiving and will absolve you of any wrong doing in making me commit the act that might have cost us our relationship. Don't let it happen again." [B]Julie:[/B] "Ok."[/QUOTE] I hope that Julie is going to go to the reunion special and dump DummyBear on national tv and make an *** out of him like what he did to her! I think that he has cheated on her before. If he will cheat on her on national tv where he KNOWS he will get caught, imagine if he wasn't being taped 24/7.

[QUOTE=Cheryl;2930]I hope that Julie is going to go to the reunion special and dump DummyBear on national tv and make an *** out of him like what he did to her! I think that he has cheated on her before. If he will cheat on her on national tv where he KNOWS he will get caught, imagine if he wasn't being taped 24/7.[/QUOTE] EXACTLY!!! The best part if she were to do that is that I just know dummybear would cry and possibly become hysterical and beat the shit out of ***li since it would be all [B]her[/B] fault...I honestly don't doubt that he loves Julie, but I do doubt that he loves her enough to be faithful.

[quote=Cheryl;2930]I hope that Julie is going to go to the reunion special and dump DummyBear on national tv and make an *** out of him like what he did to her! I think that he has cheated on her before. If he will cheat on her on national tv where he KNOWS he will get caught, imagine if he wasn't being taped 24/7.[/quote] As awesome as that would be, it is sadly not going to happen. At the very least, I hope the crowd boos the hell out of Dunbar for being such a tool. Actually, I hope they boo Julie when it is announced she is still together with Dummybear. Maybe that will help her to realize what a fool she is being for staying with him and suffering through this televised embarr***ment. As for his fidelity, it will only be a matter of time unless she plans on going on every trip he goes on from now until forever. You have to know that he is going to be hopping from bed to bed on those bar tours without cameras if Julie is elsewhere...

[QUOTE=stacee_danielle;2934]EXACTLY!!! The best part if she were to do that is that I just know dummybear would cry and possibly become hysterical and beat the shit out of Assli since it would be all [B]her[/B] fault...I honestly don't doubt that he loves Julie, but I do doubt that he loves her enough to be faithful.[/QUOTE] I don't think that he really loves her. If you love someone you wouldn't hurt them. I think that he really likes Julie, but not love. I think that the bottom line is that he's really selfish. All he had to do was tell Ashli to stop, he never told her that she made him uncomfortable, so she kept going. But I still think Ashli is a dirty ***** :)

[QUOTE=Cheryl;2941]I don't think that he really loves her. If you love someone you wouldn't hurt them. I think that he really likes Julie, but not love. I think that the bottom line is that he's really selfish. All he had to do was tell Ashli to stop, he never told her that she made him uncomfortable, so she kept going. [/QUOTE] can you imagine the crap he would have gotten from his "boys" is he turned down free/easy &^$*% (insert your own word for it here, my word of choice is pretty vulgar so I won't use it) [QUOTE=Cheryl;2941]But I still think Ashli is a dirty ***** :)[/QUOTE] I think that is now a proven fact, I wonder if dunbar had to take antibiotics afterwards...that would be some good real world watching if they showed Dunbar scratching his balls a lot and then showed him going to the doctor, LMAO...Imagine the after math of that office visit!

[QUOTE=stacee_danielle;2948]can you imagine the crap he would have gotten from his "boys" is he turned down free/easy &^$*% (insert your own word for it here, my word of choice is pretty vulgar so I won't use it) I think that is now a proven fact, I wonder if dunbar had to take antibiotics afterwards...that would be some good real world watching if they showed Dunbar scratching his balls a lot and then showed him going to the doctor, LMAO...Imagine the after math of that office visit![/QUOTE] I think his boys should give him crap FOR sleeping with her free/easy *****! She's nasty! She's not something to be proud of... that is like bragging to your friends about sleeping with the 60 year old heroin addict prostitute down the street.... LOL, he will probably need more than antibiotics.

[QUOTE=Cheryl;2949]I think his boys should give him crap FOR sleeping with her free/easy *****! She's nasty! She's not something to be proud of... that is like bragging to your friends about sleeping with the 60 year old heroin addict prostitute down the street.... [/QUOTE] well if I was talking about his "girls" then yeah they would see all that you pointed out woth no problem, but this is the Male species we are talking about, [B][I]most[/B][/I] guys don't care(although dunbars brother sure seems to agree with us, LOL) [QUOTE=Cheryl;2949]LOL, he will probably need more than antibiotics.[/QUOTE] yeah there is not a cure for half the stuff I imagine she has...

[quote=Katiedid;2953]Has anyone else noticed that no one seems to have Dummybear on their top friends from the cast?[/quote] I just looked and you are right. Cohutta has everyone [B][I]but[/I][/B] Dunbar. Some cast members only have like a top 4 so I guess I can't blame them for skipping dummybear, but to have a top 20 and dish out the snub? Ouch!