Real World DC: Erika Lauren Wasilewski

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[quote=chicago;104211]hello! I would feel bad for her if this wasn't true and if it didn't involve cancer. She told me so many "Sob" stories when I used to see her and none of it ended up being true. And I'm almost positive my friend has a saved conversation with her old AIM address when she finally admits to all of it. It's just sad that she made up she had cancer and very bizarre. Who does that? She made so many people cry for her and feel so bad only to be let down. I know she probably wants to start over, but I hate seeing how people think she's such a nice girl when really she's not.[/quote] Was it just the cancer thing or is she not a nice person all around?
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[quote=Dartagnan;104210]Possibly not. I guess I just will have to wait for some kind of confirmation on this. I hope the show talks about this.[/quote] I don't know how we can get "confirmation".
[quote=chicago;104196]sorry to burst your bubble guys, you don't have to just ask the boyfriend for confirmation you can ask anyone who went to lincoln way east highschool in Frankfort, IL about Erika. Even if you say do you know a girl named "Cancer" they'll know who you're talking about. Everyone called her "cancer" when she admitted she was lying. I don't know why exactly she did it, but she did. Yes she's a beautiful looking girl, but her personality ruins it for me. And no she didn't graduate yet. She started off at ISU and then transfered to Columbia. Probably stopped going once she got on Real World.[/quote] For someone who does not like Erika you sure know a lot about her.
Chicago, we are not involved in this situation nor do we know her, so it is extremely unjustified that you come here and say how you "hate" that we find her nice. We will form our own opinions. Thanks.
The whole Mokena/Frankfort IL area would LOVE to see them talk about it on the show, and I hope they do because it was literally how she would introduce herself. Hi! I'm Erika, I just found out I have skin cancer...here is where I take my daily shot to the stomach! She is the most bizarre person I have EVER met as well as the most into herself as someone can possibly be. I shoulnd't have to be telling you all this, you'll see it once the show airs. You can believe what you want, and she never did anything personally to me besides lie, I just think its not fair that shes getting all these nice comments when shes just not a nice girl. One of my best friends demanded a doctors note from her and Erika refused to show her one and stopped being her friend. God i could go ON AND ON about this girl....everyone I know is going to have Erika Real World parties and laugh our ***** off!
[quote=Bacchus;104183]It would make me feel better if we knew that the sender actually was the ex-boyfriend and would go on the record.[/quote] Yes, that's definitely the only way to go with this. There's allegedly some guy named Tim who may or may not have e-mails of an admission to this matter...
Chicago, I find it quite hilarious that for someone who so dislikes her, you just admitted that she did nothing to you personally, and you continue to rave about her. We can like whoever we want, bye bye.
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How can we find her nice when we don't know anything about her? We just seen a couple of pictures and we have her myspace link.
I'm not bashing anyone telling them what to think of her I just wanted to confirm the story from that other website. And I'm glad that it's out in the open because it's a terrible thing to lie about. You can stop getting mad at me I was just further confirming the story from shabooty. You know how i know a lot about her? From the 5 times I've hung out with her she blabbed to me about her whole cancer story and how her boyfriend dumped her. Trust me this will all make sense once the show airs. You'll see how she is for yourself!
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[quote=chicago;104232]I'm not bashing anyone telling them what to think of her I just wanted to confirm the story from that other website. And I'm glad that it's out in the open because it's a terrible thing to lie about. You can stop getting mad at me I was just further confirming the story from shabooty. You know how i know a lot about her? From the 5 times I've hung out with her she blabbed to me about her whole cancer story and how her boyfriend dumped her. Trust me this will all make sense once the show airs. You'll see how she is for yourself![/quote] Thanks for the info.
So I'll say this: It would appear that we may have a bit of a firestorm now... And, while I think it's certainly not off limits (since again, she chose to be a public figure by being on an internationally televised reality show), I urge everybody to consider two things: 1) we don't know this to be true (unless those who are posting come forward publicly and/or provide concrete supporting materials) and 2) remember - we have all done things we are not proud of at one point or another... Let's not get into a lynch-mob mentality on something that may-or-may-not have happened (and even if it did, it is not a crime...let's not treat it as one.) That having been said, if it is true that would be quite, quite "wow". That's all.
Yeah, and you coming here and trying to sway opinions only makes me want to like her more. We don't know anything about her, so I will wait to say anything.
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[quote=Dartagnan;104243]Yeah, and you coming here and trying to sway opinions only makes me want to like her more. We don't know anything about her, so I will wait to say anything.[/quote] She's not swaying my opinion because I don't know her, nor does anyone else on here unless they haven't said anything (lurkers) and Wiggy. She's a beautiful girl, but the show hasn't aired. How do we know she's nice? How do we know she's a liar? We don't know.
She didn't personally attack me, but she lied about having cancer and is now going to be loved and famous. It's like when a celebrity took a nude pic before they became famous and it gets released but this is worse she lied about something people die from every day.
GOD i don't want everyone to hate her I could care less just wanted to say I'm from her hometown and confirm the story. I know that is not enough for you guys, but you'll see! just wait!
Dartagnan, the only thing unjustified is that you're obsessing over someones pictures on a website and becoming her number one fan. what is also unjustified is lying about cancer. her morality went RIGHT out the window with that one. please, tell me how you'd treat someone who used to be a friend to you, and lied to your face for months about a terminal illness like this. there are repercussions for acting like an idiot, and putting yourself out there on a reality, and popular television show paints a target right on your forehead. truth speaks for itself my friend, and with or without people knowing her - you'll see it when you're drooling over the television watching her in the upcoming season. anyway. being from the chicago land area, i can confirm this is true and agree with "chicago". so lay off. judgments may be made for themselves and yes believing everything you hear on the internet is hard to do.. but so is believing one of your best friends when they cry cancer.
Hahahah, oh my god. When did I once say she was nice? I said she seemed nice yes, she does. I don't know her, nor do I care to, but what is unjustified is you assuming that I am obsessing with anyone. So please, if you think your comments affect me one bit, check yourself.
[quote=chicago;104254]GOD i don't want everyone to hate her I could care less just wanted to say I'm from her hometown and confirm the story. I know that is not enough for you guys, but you'll see! just wait![/quote] Chicago - I for one appreciate your coming on here to share this information. I do have to say that I sway in the direction of believing you and I [B]urge my fellow posters[/B] to be more welcoming. That having been said, I don't know Erika. I met her, had several drinks with her, and spoke to her briefly several times at Halo on Sunday. My first impression was that she is nice. That doesn't mean that I believe she's incapable of having done what people are coming forward with. To me, it's an interesting storyline and I'm intrigues. It may sound cold, but I don't care if she did it. It doesn't affect me or my opinion of her. I file that in my mental filing cabinet, and if for some reason we become friendly over the next several months and I have an opportunity to make my own opinion of her and nothing happens that leads me to be reminded of this nugget of information then it won't affect my interaction. If it comes out on the show, it'll be good television. End of story. You know?
Oh and TJ you are right we don't know, but I find it funny how people have to come jump and set her up to be some terrible person. For all I know she is, but my point is why judge her, TJ? You always seem to be one to say don't judge them based on so-and-so, but yet people come and can be completely lying to us, yet you choose to tell me not to disbelieve them? I honestly could care less what you guys have to say about her so continue. :D
[quote=freshvalues;104255]Dartagnan, the only thing unjustified is that you're obsessing over someones pictures on a website and becoming her number one fan. what is also unjustified is lying about cancer. her morality went RIGHT out the window with that one. please, tell me how you'd treat someone who used to be a friend to you, and lied to your face for months about a terminal illness like this. there are repercussions for acting like an idiot, and putting yourself out there on a reality, and popular television show paints a target right on your forehead. truth speaks for itself my friend, and with or without people knowing her - you'll see it when you're drooling over the television watching her in the upcoming season. anyway. being from the chicago land area, i can confirm this is true and agree with "chicago". so lay off. judgments may be made for themselves and yes believing everything you hear on the internet is hard to do.. but so is believing one of your best friends when they cry cancer.[/quote] Welcome, freshvalues. I see where you're coming from and objectively speaking I support most of what you've said above about the principle and about peoples' infatuation with somebody they do not yet know. I have a policy of forming my opinion of somebody based off of the experiences I personally have with them and with some influence of what my close, trusted friends may say about an individual. That's it though.
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[quote=wiggyndc;104260]Chicago - I for one appreciate your coming on here to share this information. I do have to say that I sway in the direction of believing you and I [B]urge my fellow posters[/B] to be more welcoming. [/quote] No kidding! Gosh everyone, we're usually [I]happy[/I] when someone who claims to know the cast steps forward and reveals otherwise unknown info/stories. Let's not change course just because it's something we may not want to hear. Welcome Chicago! (I Loooove your town)
No I appreciate it, just choose not to judge.
[quote=OtherPplsDrama;104265]No kidding! Let's not change course just because it's something we may not want to hear. [/quote] [SIZE=6]A+[/SIZE]
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[quote=Dartagnan;104261]Oh and TJ you are right we don't know, but I find it funny how people have to come jump and set her up to be some terrible person. [B]For all I know she is, but my point is why judge her, TJ? You always seem to be one to say don't judge them based on so-and-so, but yet people come and can be completely lying to us, yet you choose to tell me not to disbelieve them?[/B] I honestly could care less what you guys have to say about her so continue. :D[/quote] Wow dart, Why are you coming at me? We don't know her and these people may know her. I'm not saying believe them but its not like the show has aired and this is just coming out. We don't know. All I said is that lying about a disease is disgusting, and cancer hits close to home with me. I never said she was a horrible person or anything like that.
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[quote=OtherPplsDrama;104265][B]No kidding! Gosh everyone, we're usually [I]happy[/I] when someone who claims to know the cast steps forward and reveals otherwise unknown info/stories. Let's not change course just because it's something we may not want to hear. [/B] Welcome Chicago! (I Loooove your town)[/quote] I couldn't have said it better myself.
Wiggyndc- Thank you. I just didn't think anyone on this forum was actually from her hometown like I am, so I just wanted to confirm it, even if it no one believed me. Just thought I'd try to confirm, but we need hard evidence for some people and others don't care.. and that's just fine! I'm not trying to make people hate her, just to beware really. Maybe she's a changed woman now for all I know, but she was really fake to me and all of my friends and even to the people she considered her best friends. I shouldn't have posted anything because there will be proof soon enough for the people who care to know! If you don't then who cares new real world hell yeah!
TJ, everyone in my family that has died, died from cancer as well. The situation is not funny to me at all. But honestly, Wiggy has a point that people do bad things, and I do not like the fact that they are saying we will see how terrible of a person she is on tv. I appreciate trying to elucidate the situation, but do not enjoy hearing that. I will drop this now.
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[quote=chicago;104270] [b]if you don't then who cares new real world hell yeah![/b][/quote] *****.
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Now everyone just [I][B]chill-ax[/B][/I]. If anyone has a problem with anyone please PM a mod. We're all friends here, right?
just an fyi i think ALL of my facebook friends have status' about Erika "Cancer" Wasilewski. and I have about 20 notifications for showing a friend the shabooty website. This is the most exciting thing that has happened to us in a while ha.

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