Perez Hilton just posted this about Kendal...I haven't even read it yet, but knew others would want to read it

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

father’s day and my baby's daddy...
with my son's first birthday on the same day as father's day, i can't help but have mixed feelings. i am so excited to celebrate the day my very favorite boy was born! but.. a feeling of anger and rage sweeps my body when i think of little asa's biological dead beat dad.

josh had made it clear from the beginning that he wanted nothing to do with his son. however, i was convinced that he was a better person than that. it's been a year of me trying to get him interested in one way or another- i even felt like we made a little progress around february when he actually returned a phone call- maybe even two. that was all i needed to know that i had been doing the right thing by not hiring lawyers or acting out of emotion. i thought we could have a peaceful coexsistance and that someday, my son would would be able to (at least) call his "father" if he simply wanted to talk. so foolish am i..

after months of delay, i realized that quite possibly, everyone was right about josh; that he really didn't care. recently, through the grapevine, i've heard that josh is saying that the DNA test we took about 10 months ago was inconclusive. even though i have a DNA test that came back negative from our preferred potetntial father, and josh's test came back with a very different result, josh is still saying that the child isn't his. i guess he needs more than a 99% to be convinced. maybe he has a twin with with idedntical DNA that he believes me to have slept with. even though josh admitted to being the father of asa, he is now changing his story. i'm assuming it has something to do with his lawyers. it's funny how lawyers are.. i wonder if they really think about the effects of their actions. if they are in support of a client not paying child support and using their knowledge that ultimately reflects the life of a little boy, then i am disgusted. josh has not returned any emails or calls since april when he said he'd call me when his "lawyers got back in town". they must be on summer vacation.

well, josh, happy father's day, sweetheart, you give ass holes out there something to look up to.

Kendal

Three cheers for Perez Hilton.

I love Kendal.

OUCH! This is some serious blast!

Good for Kendal.

I agree...I say put his ass on child support and son't sweat it, I am sure kendal will eventually find a very nice man who will make a great father for baby Asa.

She is right in her last line if you messed up you have to take responsibility. I feel sorry for her, why can't MTV cut her a little slack and have her come on one of the challenges?

She seems willing and it won't hurt, worse that happens she get eliminated right?

That guy is acting like a douche though if he really is the father.

Advice from inside the courthouse -- running off to Panama and leaving your child in another's care right now would not be wise. Kendal and BMP did this right. There will be other options for her.

Good advice, I am glad she worked something out though.

Well I am not saying now, I do believe she has to get her child support case over with. I am just saying in the future she should be given a chance.

Hope BMP reads this plea, cause she does have a lot of fans that want to see her.

Aw poor Kendal. She is actually one of my all time fav. cast members. She seems like a really sweet girl. What a loser he is!